Showing posts with label All About Love... Show all posts
Showing posts with label All About Love... Show all posts

Monday, December 13, 2010

L.O.V.E

Love hurts. I think majority of people in this earth experience it. Including myself.. So when i read the recent hot news on newspaper after the day i flew back from my Hong Kong trip, it shocked me! Alviss Kong, born 22nd May 1988, committed suicide in the wee hours of by jumping off the 14th floor of Ketumbar Heights, Cheras, Kuala Lumpur after succumbing to emotional distress brought about by the breakup with his girlfriend. Love not only hurts him, it kills! I don't understand why he chosen this way.. Suicide is not the best solution! After a while, people will forget about this and their life still goes on.
Who to blame? Some said he is stupid, ended up his life for a girl that left him for another guy. Not worth! Some blamed his girlfriend for being so cruel. I think there is no right or false in relationship. Love is selfish. One might be happy and one might be hurt. You have to get ready that love is no promise, no guarantee, no forever!
Love is blind. Yes it does. But you will reliaze you have done so many stupid things when you really wake up.
When i am in love, i will completely give it all to the one i loved. But it doesn't mean love is everything! Before we do anything, please think about our beloved family, those who love and care about us. Always remember nothing is so special than ourself! Life is precious! Please appreciate life!

Thursday, November 4, 2010

When Love Became Faded...


Recently I heard so many stories about friend’s being break off, divorce in their relationship. I think all these caused of someone love’s has faded! Whenever I heard story related to this, my feeling extended to very emotional. Because that would be the utmost sad thing to happen to those who got hurt. Of cause me too, I scare one day it might happen to myself. Despite on that, what could I do? Prevent, take extra caution towards my own relationship? How?

Sometime, I ask myself.. Why does love.. fade? I don’t believe love faded in just second. I think it is accumulated from time to time and finally burst. Oft time love fades because of issues in relationships that cannot be resolved and the two people find themselves going in different directions. As they progress going in their separate ways, they find they don't have anything in common with their partner anymore and the relationship they once shared begins to flounder. When two people stop communicating in a relationship and they discontinue their efforts to show affections and love for each other, they find there's a big void in their lives and they become unhappy with each other. This can cause partners to agree to go their separate ways and end their relationship.

Many times love fades because the two people drift apart because one goes one way and the other another. Love must be nurtured and their needs to be time together to communicate and to appreciate each others views and to share their desires. Any love will fade if it is not properly given attention and an effort is taken to keep the spark a live. Love waits for moments of companionship, loving, communicating, excitement, and the miscellaneous things that causes the soul to stay alive. Never take love for grant, because if you do, you'll find a fading love.

I really hope everyone could appreciate to what have right now and never do anything that could hurt our love one or you might regret one day. By the time… It is too late!

Monday, October 11, 2010

十全十美

其实,十全十美的好男人,好女人是不存在的,还是面对现实吧!生活中那一个能够疼你爱你,与你同甘共苦,与你相依为命的另一半,就是最完美的人。


不要力图去做一个十全十美的人,这即不现实,也不可能,还会令自己活得很累。

Monday, October 4, 2010

爱情之间的相处之道


两个相爱的人在一起,难免一方习惯性给予善意的警告和关心的唠叨。 但是太多或过度了,接受的一方不会再觉得贴心,而是压力和厌烦。 其实,最重要的相处之道是:尽量给对方欢喜。如果能够成为讨人开心的喜鹭,就不要抢着做令人讨厌的乌鸦。

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

沉闷的爱情

两个人的相处,绝对不要因为在一起久了或结婚了,就不再在意两人之间的互动。让感情升温的诀窍,除了常常沟通之外,还要让对方感受与你在一起一直都有一种挑战以及惊喜。

多动点脑筋不是为了他,而是为了自己......

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Dare To Love..


“Cinderella walked on broken glass, Sleeping beauty let her whole life pass by, Belle fell in love with a beast, Pocahontas risked her life for a feast, Jasmine could have had anyone but she chose a poor man, and Ariel, she walked on land.”

So many people dislike fairytales because it makes us believe in love, believe that a prince will swoop down and save us when something goes wrong. But I’ve come to realise that in every fairytale-like movie, every girl took a risk. Took a risk for love, took a risk in the name of love.

So, how do we know if our own fairytale won’t really happen if we don’t try, if we stop believing in love? I know it’s hard for some of you to put down their guard and to learn to trust someone else sometimes.

I know because I’ve been through it. People like us, we distance ourselves from people we genuinely like just because we are afraid to get hurt. But does building up these walls ultimately saves us from hurting?

It doesn’t.

We’ve got to know that these people, the people we are blocking out because of our own insecurities, will leave someday too. Leave for something better. Everyone will cause you pain and hurt and tears, but you have to decide who’s worth it. And when you make that decision, happiness will come to you. =)

When You're Away...


Monday, August 23, 2010

Falling in ♥

When you think of your past love,
You may view it as a failure.
But when you find a new love,
You view the past as a teacher.
In a game of love,
It doesn't really matter who won or who lost.What is important is you know,
When to hold on and when to let go!


You know you really love someone,
When you want him or her to be happy.
Even if his or her happiness means that you are not part of it,
Everything happens for a best.
If a person you love doesn't love you back,
Don't be afraid to love someone else again.
For you will never know unless you give it a try,
You will never love a person you love unless you risk for love.
Love strikes in hurting,
If you don't get hurt,
You don't learn how to love.
Love doesn't hurt all the time,Though the hurting is still there to test you,
To help you grow.
Don't find love,
Let love find you.That is why it is called falling in love,
Because you don't force yourself to fall... you just fall.
You cannot finish a book,
Without closing its chapters.
If you want to go on,
Then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages.
Love is not destroyed by a single failure,
Or won by a single caress.
It is a lifetime venture,
In which we are always learning, discovering and growing.


The greatest irony of love is letting it go when you need to hold on,
And holding on when you need to let go.We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else,
Who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.
On falling out of love,
Take some time to heal and then get back on the horse.
But don't ever make the same mistake,
Of riding the same one that threw you the first time.
To love is to risk rejection,
To live is to risk dying,
To hope is to risk failure,
But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risking nothing!
To reach for another is to risk involvement,
To expose your feelings is to expose true self.
To love is to risk not to be loved in return!


How to define love?
Fall but not stumble,
Be constant but not too persistent,
Share and never be unfair,
Understand and try not to demand,
Hurt but never keep the pain.
Love is like a knife,
It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime.Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling,
It should inspire you and give you joy and strength.
But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end,Loving people means giving them the freedom that they choose to be and where they choose to be.
Loving someone means giving him or her a freedom to find his or her way,
Whether it lead towards you or away from you.


Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken,
No matter how scary or painful.
For only then you will experience the fullness of humanity,
You truly experience love.
Only love can hurt your heart,
Fill you with desire and tear you apart.
Only love can make you cry,
And only love knows why.
If you are not ready to cry,
If you are not ready to take a risk,
If you are not ready to feel a pain,
Then you are not ready to fall in love.
There was a time in our lives,
When we became afraid to fall in love.
Because every time we do we get hurt,
Then I figured that is why it is called falling in love.


Whatever happened,
Don't give up!
It is just a trial,
Have faith in yourself and cheer up!
When you decide to love,
Allow it to grow.
When you promise to love,
Refuse it to die!

** Thanks Nigel Low for sharing this meaning love poem!

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

ViVi Mag

People who know me, for sure know i am a magazine freak! I will get attracted by those beautiful magazine cover, contents, and etc. Especially those thick magazine.. Because i feel that it is worth for money and can read longer and obviously more things to see. I have ton of magazines at home, some kept for months and it is still very new because i have no time to read them. :P I have fashion mags, business related mags.. All kind.. Wanna borrow? Can!! Wait for me to finish first ok.. ;)
Last night, Steven came back from Taipei and he bought me a ViVi magazine! The latest one ok! Hehe! Taiwan edition and it is not yet release in Malaysia! ♪♫ ♪♫ ♪♫

September 2010, Taiwan Edition!


Monday, April 26, 2010

More Attentions...


There isn't any formula or method. You learn to love by loving - by paying attention and doing what one thereby discovers has to be done.

Monday, April 19, 2010

I ♥ Your ♥

I Wonder...

When people being madly in love, they will do all the strange / weird things they have never done in life..



Like kissing in different settings,

Falling to sleep with somebody’s arms around them,

Having thousands of tickling butterflies in the stomach,

Waking up with somebody starring at them,

Laughing cheerfully out loud when this somebody is being silly,

Walking hands in hands in the city and feel like you are the luckiest girl on planet,

Being teased with, and then getting forgive-me kisses,

Being told that you are beautiful, and tell it back,

Doing things that you never wanted to do, but you now want to do because he likes it,

Talking on the phone with him/her at late nights just to hear his/her voice,

Being understood and loved for being yourself,

Being told that you are the most important person in the world for him, and that nothing is ever going to change that.





BUT



Will it maintain forever??

Sunday, April 18, 2010

Learning...

"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when their right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust none but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together."
Marilyn Monroe

Saturday, March 20, 2010

Growth Of Love

"We've got this gift of love, but love is like a precious plant.
You can't just accept it and leave it in the cupboard or just think it's going to get on by itself.
You've got to keep on watering it.
You've got to really look after it and nurture it."

- John Lennon

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"Have as many wish trees as you want in the garden."

Monday, February 22, 2010

My V-Day Pressie

One nigt before Valentine's Day, my darling drove all the way from airport to my home town in Seremban to surprised me this 'lil pressie!

Making a Valentine's Day memorable isn't as hard as you think. The most importantly find out what your sweetheart really wants. As for me, i love surprises! Doesn't matter what is that, but the effort to plan for a surprise does matter!

It was about 9pm. He was flying back from work. As far as i know he got to rush back to Melacca for Chinese New Year reunion dinner. But he rather make me surprise before going home. :D So sweet! XOXO

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Love Sick


It's love. It's perfect, sweet and so definitely sick. Love as a mental illness. I am having love sick whenever you're away...

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Swan Is No Longer Loyal Lover!

Something amused me today. Do you believe that animal is like human, they will find a partner to get married and have children or they will divorce their partner because they can't fulfill them? The answer is yes!!! http://www.kooky.com.my/chinese/node/3511


Swan is loyal lover all the time, they are a symbol of love! But they can be very 'mean' to their lover too! Don't play play huh!!

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Hugs ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

Some time, hugs is everything! Just a deep hug will make a person happy, it is so simply like that! So give a hug to your love ones today! :)

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

True Love

True Love! Can anyone really tell me what is it all about? Have you wondered where this word came from? Definition of love by Wikipedia, Love represents a range of human emotions and experiences related to the senses of affection and sexual attraction. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states and attitudes, ranging from genetic pleasure to intense interpersonal attraction.

Some look at it biblically while others thinks of it emotionally. I personally view it both biblically and emotionally. This four letter word has been widely used and mostly abused by many people. I hate the way the word has been misused and carelessly abused by different meanings. There are different types of love, agape, parental and the love that joins discrete definition of opposite sex as they start sharing their lives together. There is no discrete definition of the word true love. Definition of the word depends on individual’s point of view. It is subject to debate and I would say it is a strong feeling or illusion that starts in the mind and develop slowly in ones inner being.

The word true love has been misused in many ways. Whether it is love at first sight, temporary or long term. I think most of the people are looking for true love. When a man claims to fall in love with a lady at first sight and claims he feels attracted to her, is this love surely? To me this is just a lust at first sight. True love is no longer there and the urge that drive people towards each other is not love but lust. Men are not attracted to women for love but for sexual satisfaction. Love is in most cases misinterpreted and many wonder if does exist. I always wonder, will my man still love me like before if I am old and not attractive anymore. Many of my friends believe that love between a man and a woman is imaginary, there is nothing like love but only the power of the loin and outlook that attracts.

Misuses of the power of love has become more of a tradition and is a reality. It is passed from generation to generation and who are to break this tradition? I believe in the power of love and not lust but in practice love is not elusive. True love is developed from within and it is molded and nurtured by our feelings. Love is a precious gift from God and it should be watered well and taken care of or else it withers and dies off. You might be wondering who came up with this word love? I wonder too but who knows where it came from? It is our obligation to take care of this aspect of love and to handle it with care. Love is life, it wins all and makes someone feel special. Appreciate each other and never expect the return. Just learn to love and it will multiply joy and add spice to your life, it is thoughtful and gives a reason to live, smile and be ever happy!
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